This is my desiderata.
If you are a submissive type of person, nice and has very good potentials of being "on top," you will be put down by some. Bad things will be said against you, your credibility will be surely questioned, and every little thing that you do and say will be put on the record. All your actions and all the things that you say are seen and heard by all eyes and ears. But don't feel bad, don't allow yourself to feel small. Prove yourself and the others that you are well-mannered and well-educated. Play your own game. Think. You will eventually gain the respect of the most, but bear in mind that you will never, ever please everybody. There are people who will resist. Just let them be. Do not question them. You are not there to please everybody in the first place. At the end of it all, you are simply a good person, with innate and genuine kindness. Let it all pass and continue being you. Learn to accept that there are people who are selfishly happy for their own success. These people just want to sit on the throne that they built for themselves. Their hearts are full of envy and jealousy. Just don't tire of showing them kindness. Try to understand the reason why they are like that. Generously give them the benefit of the doubt.
Thoughts that make me live by.
Pag binato ka ng bato, batuhin mo ng tinapay.
I believe in karma.
Ang punong hitik sa bunga, laging binabato.
We don't have the right to judge anybody.
Siguro ganun lang sila talaga.
Hindi kami magka-level. :=)
Walang mawawala sa 'yo kung magiging mabait ka sa lahat.
Sayang ang tuition ko kung papatulan ko lang sila.
Ganun talaga pag popular, laging pinag-uusapan. ;=)
All these I learned in De La Salle-Canlubang. Thanks for making me tougher.
dax
~for those who are willing to believe in their dreams and in themselves
life is a precious gift in which anything is possible~